Attachment, Good Enough, Life, Self Awareness


Welcome to my site, which offers counselling services for children.

I should probably start by telling you a little bit about me.

My name is Seetal Udeshi (most people call me Sea) and my journey to becoming a counsellor took a very long time.

It started back when I was choosing my A levels, taking a keen interest in Psychology. However, as life would have it, it wasn’t my destiny to study this at university; and my life took a very different path for a few years. A Masters degree in Creative Writing, and a very different career for nearly 10 years.

I have lived abroad in Australia where my journey towards counselling had begun, however, as again life would have it, it didn’t seem like it was the right time for me then either.

Moving back to the UK, I was more determined than ever to become a therapist; and would you know it? I finally fell into the path that I truly feel I was destined to be in.

My studying journey was not an easy one either, lots of thoughts and feelings emerged on my journey which needed much thought and processing. Then, in the midst of my course, I became pregnant and my life was to be changed forever.

Since giving birth to my first child a few months ago, it’s been interesting reflecting back on the last 10 years of my life. The choices I made all those years ago; and thinking about the what if’s or what could have been.

Processing the regrets and thoughts of what my life could have been, has been very difficult. On the one hand, sometimes I wish things could have been different, but on the other hand, being here, in this present right now, with my little one, I wonder how I could regret anything?

My life is still a journey for me, and one I hope to move forward with my new family and learn many new things and have lots of adventures.

I hope to share some of my journey, thoughts and feelings with you all, as well as some thoughts others have made in counselling.

If you have any questions, do send them in, I’m always open to thoughts and queries.

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